Thursday, May 31, 2012

So Little Meant So Much

Last week I wrote about the blessing my husband and I received as we hosted two teen-age boys from Liberia in our home.  They were part of the Matsiko World Orphan's Choir.  Their leader that accompanied them in our home told me that the boys had been instructed to bring nothing to the United States.  The organization provided everything for them.  The choir travels with few changes of clothing because of limited space.  These children are used to having very little.

On the second night of the their stay, they observed my husband working in his puzzle books.  They wanted to complete a puzzle with him.  Naturally the adult books were too difficult for the boys.  The next day while the boys were busy with the choir, my husband and I went shopping.  We bought the boys new underwear and two Word Search books for adolescents.  Each book cost $1.00.  Now can you think of anything else that can be bought for $1.00? 

The choir was busy all day and didn't arrive home until 8:30 p.m.  As the boys entered the back door, I said, "You boys might have a surprise on your beds."  They ran to the room where they had been sleeping and stopped just outside the door.  They each covered their eyes with their hands and said, "Don't turn on the light yet.  We aren't ready."  I got a little nervous.  I thought I hope they aren't disappointed.  It's a dollar book and underwear.  The boys felt their way around the furniture and when they were ready I turned on the light.  They were so excited about those cheap books and underwear.  It was hard to believe.  They both grabbed me in a big bear hug and then went looking for my husband.  I told them to get ready for bed and after we had our story time and prayer I'd let them stay awake for a little while working their puzzles in bed. 

At 10:15 p.m. they were still working the puzzles when I told them to turn the lights out.  The next morning I awoke at 6:40.  The boys were awake, dressed, beds made and working puzzles.  After breakfast my husband said, "Come on boys.  Let's go out on the porch."  They replied, "Okay, we'll be right there."  Then they ran into their room retrieved the puzzle books and went out on the porch.  At 9:45 a.m. they were still working on the puzzles when their leader told them to put their duffel bags in the car.  We took them to the church to meet with the group.  They got out of the car and sat down on the sidewalk to work in their puzzle books.  Before the group left, each boy showed us that he had completed 25 puzzles in his book.

The joy those $1.00 puzzle books brought two teen-age boys was amazing.  We are so spoiled in the United States we fail to appreciate the small pleasures in life.  These boys who had so little seized every moment and cherished it.  While visiting us, the choir took their first boat ride.  The children loved it.  The two boys who had stayed with us were excited that they could see Louisiana across the lake.  Such small things that mean so little to us meant an unforgettable moment to these children. 

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

What a Blessing!



This week my husband and I are honored to be hosting some of the Matsiko (mat-seek-o) World Orphans Choir in our home.  These children are orphans from different countries around the world who have joined a choir and tour the United States.  Here is what their web page says:
Born from a heart for every forgotten child in the unreached corners of the world, International Children’s Network began its choir program in 2008, with the first U.S. tour of Matsiko Children’s Choir. Matsiko was the first step toward bringing together children from the various countries in which ICN provides sponsorship networking and with its success, the World Orphans Choir was born. The World Orphans Choir tells the stories of the lives and cultures of children from Peru,India, and Liberia through song and dance as the children’s hearts connect with audiences everywhere.

We have been preparing for weeks for this event.  For safety reasons these children's activities are limited and the hosts are asked to plan low-injury activities.  They are not allowed to watch much television and never allowed on the computer.  The choir consists of all ages and the assignments are made by the sponsors.   Since I didn't know what ages to prepare for I bought general craft supplies.  After so long in education I thought surely I could entertain children with some art activities.  I had my children's books, written for ages 5-8 to read to them.  I was set.  Then I thought what if I am assigned boys?  Will they want to sit and color or play board games?  So as I was looking around the store I spotted water pistols.  I  bought some--just in case.

We met at the church to receive the children.  The director gave us some history of the children's countries, explained the rules and how the choir has changed the lives of these children.  He told about receiving the children who had such low self-esteem they wouldn't even look you in the eye.  He talked about the hope and self-esteem these children have now after receiving the love of host families.  Then it was time for the assignments.

Now I am ready to receive my small children.  Imagine my surprise when we are assigned two teenage boys.  What am I going to do with two teenage boys?  I raised two boys but I didn't have to be so concerned with their safety.  My boys were rough and tough and entertained themselves.  We took the boys to our house, gave them a tour and we sat down in the living room to talk.  After a few minutes they asked if they could walk to the lake.  Their assigned sponsor walked with them and they returned in about 30 minutes.  They sat on the couch looking at each other and us.  I knew they had been traveling all day and didn't want to sit any longer, so I pulled out the water pistols.  Their eyes lit up.  We filled the pistols in the sink and these two teenagers went outside to have a water war.  I watched out the window as they ducked behind the boat, tried to ambush each other, ran around parked vehicles, and laughed continually.  I loved it.  I loved watching them play.  Most of all I loved their smiles.  After a few minutes they came in the house and their sponsor told them to 'hit the showers'.  While they were getting ready for bed I tried to think about what to do next.  The director had asked us to treat them like our own children.  What would I do if these were my boys? 
When my children were growing up, at bedtime we piled into one person's bed and read a story.  Then we prayed, kissed goodnight and everyone went to their own beds.  Would these two boys want me to read to them?  I was going to try.  I looked for something to read.  My children's books were out of the question.  I looked at my VBS material I will be teaching in a few weeks.  Still not appropriate.  Then I decided on a bible story.  I pulled out a translation that was easy to understand, found the story of Gideon and went to the bedroom where the boys were.  I explained that reading before bedtime was a tradition in our home.  They agreed and one invited me to sit on his bed.  He asked me to read the story of the woman at the well.  So I changed plans and read the requested story.  As I hugged the boys good night, they both said "Thank you for the story."

These children have been extremely polite and respectful.  It has been my blessing to share my home and time with them.  I hope you have the opportunity to witness the power of love and the difference it can make in children who had no hope before joining the choir. 

For more information on the choir log onto: 
http://www.icnchildren.net/world-orpans-choir-icn

Monday, May 21, 2012

Refusing To Let Go

Yesterday the morning news showed a video of a small dog with a broom in his mouth.  He was attempting to enter a doorway with the brook held like the picture to the left.  The broom was longer than the door was wide and kept hitting the wall preventing the dog from entering.  This persistent dog kept backing up, turning around and trying again.  Each time he was stopped by the broom hitting each side of the doorway.  He tried multiple times, yet he never let go of the broom.  The video was hilarious and shown several times.  Everyone laughed because the dog wasn't intelligent enough to know that if he just put the broom down he could enter the door.  His refusal to let go prevented him from moving forward.

While that is funny, we as human beings do the same thing.  We hold on to something emotionally and refuse to let go.  Our refusal to let go prevents us from moving forward.  We complain to others about our inability to move forward.  We try therapy.  We blame our past. We modify our behavior or actions.  Yet the painful event keeps popping into our minds.  We allow our emotional past to hold us back from achieving the goals God has set for us.  Why?  Why did the dog refuse to let go of the broom? 

The dog wanted the broom in his mouth more than he wanted to enter the door.  We want to hold on to our emotional baggage more than we want to move forward.  That emotional baggage is our comforter.  It makes us feel better when we fail at something.  It is something to blame when we fear an endeavor more than we trust God.  It is a wonderful excuse when we hurt others.  We fail to understand that if we just let go, we could move forward and grow from the experience.

What are you holding on to that is preventing you from growing to the heights God has planned for you?  Something from your childhood?  A missed opportunity?  Something from your marriage?  Why not look up and see God waiting to take it from you? 

Oh, but Theresa, I do that everyday and then the next day it bothers me again.

I know.  I used to do the same thing.  Then I realized I was focusing on myself.  The truth is that we program our brains to replay events in our lives.  We can't just forget those painful events, but we can reprogram our brains to focus on other things.  The way I reprogrammed my brain was everytime a painful event popped into my mind, I would repeat one phrase to myself until the memory was gone.  Now I find that I seldom have to repeat the phrase.  You can use any phrase you want, but the one I used was "It ain't all about you".  You would be amazed at how that small phrase will help you overcome the pain in your life.

Remember the one who hurt you is as human as you are.  They've been hurt just like you have.  They have faults just like you do.  They have bad days, hold secret pains, hide their stress from the world just like you do.  Let's cut each other and ourselves some slack and let go of the past.

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Blog Hop Winner

view detailsI am pleased to announce the winner of my blog hop draw.  Everyone who left a comment received chapters 1-9 of my first novel Triumph Through Trial.  One person won the entire book.  That person was Anastasia Watson.  Congratulations Anastasia.  I will be contacting you to see how you would like to receive the book.

I would like to thank everyone who is now following me or left an encouraging comment.  I love hearing from my readers.  I personally visited every blog participant and tried to leave a message.  Sometimes it was "Great site" or "Thanks for participating".  Just a short note to let them know I was there.  This is a great way to encourage a writer.  If you stop by a blog, please leave a comment.  It is possible to post by 'anonymous' if you don't to leave your name.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Blog Hop Follow-up

view detailsThank you for all the wonderful comments left on my blog.  They were an encouragement to me.  I have published the comments that did not contain email address.  I am protecting the privacy of the people who left an email address, but I did read every one of them and each was a blessing.  I have sent the first nine chapters of everyone who I had an address.  Some were returned and some left no contact information.  For this reason, I am going to wait a day or so to award my entire book.  If you did not receive Chapters 1-9, please leave another comment and an email address.  If you gave me an email address with your first comment, the address did not work for me.  Please leave me an alternate address.  I want to be fair to everyone, so I will award the book on Thursday morning.  That will give everyone who didn't receive the first chapters to send post another comment. 

To my blog peers, I have not had time to visit all the blogs but I will keep the list and see you in a few days.  Thanks for participating in the blog hop. 

Monday, May 7, 2012

Blog Hop


Welcome to the 1st John 3:16 Giveaway Blog Hop! As one of the members of this great network of Christian Authors, I am excited to participate in this event! We have come together this week to showcase our books and to give you, our readers, a chance to win some great prizes as you "hop" from blog to blog. A different prize is offered at each blog site (no purchase necessary), however if you want to have a chance to win one of two Kindles the network is giving away, the only requirement is that you sign up for the John 3:16 ezine newsletter. (Located at the top right side column of the John 3:16 blog site.)


At the other blogs, each author will require that you leave a comment (and a valid email address) so they may contact you if you win a prize offered on their blog site.

May I also suggest that you show your love and appreciation to each blog host by either following them on Twitter, or "liking" them on Facebook or even subscribing to their blog. It won't help your odds of winning a prize but I know each author would be thrilled and very encouraged!
I am offering every person who leaves a comment a pdf. of the first nine chapters of my novel Triumph Through Trials.  One lucky person will win the entire book.  To receive the nine chapters and enter for a chance to win the entire book, leave a comment along with your email address.  Comments will not be published and you will not be contacted by me in the future.  The only thing you will receive from me is a thank you and the pdf.  No one else will have access to your email.



So tell your friends about the John 3:16 Giveaway Blog Hop! It's going to be a great week of fun!

Just click on the links below to go from blog to blog! Happy hoppin'!

Blog Hop Participants:

1.      Lorilyn Roberts (John 3:16 Network Blog)http://john316mn.blogspot.com/

2.      Lynn DoveWord Salt (Host blog) - http://wordsalt.wordpress.com/

3.       Laura J. Davis - http://interviewsandreviews.blogspot.com/

4.       Paulette Harper - http://www.pauletteharperjohnson.blogspot.com/

5.       Carol A. Brown - http://connectwithcarolbrown.blogspot.com/

6.      April Gardner - http://www.aprilwgardner.com/

7.      Sue Russellhttp://www.suerussellsblog.blogspot.com/

8.      Thomas Blubaugh - http://tomblubaugh.net/


10.  Heather Bixlerhttp://heatherbixler.com/

11.  Joy Hannabasshttp://splashesofjoy.wordpress.com/

12.  Deborah Bateman - http://www.DeborahHBateman.com

13.  Kimberley Payne - http://www.fitforfaith.blogspot.com/

14.  Rose McCauleyhttp://www.rosemccauley.blogspot.com


16.  Alice J. Wisler - http://www.alicewisler.blogspot.com/

17.  Amanda Stephan - http://www.thepriceoftrust.com/

18.  Saundra Daltonhttp://gracetolivefree.blogspot.com/



21.   Deborah McCarragher - http://www.godmissionpossible.blogspot.com/

22.  Lorilyn Roberts - http://lorilynroberts.blogspot.com/


24.  Martin Rothhttp://www.military-orders.com

25.  Janet Perez Eckles - http://www.janetperezeckles.com/blog

26.  Kenneth Wintershttp://www.lostcrownofcolonnade.com/

27.  Eddie Snipeshttp://www.eddiesnipes.com/


29.  Janalyn Voight - http://janalynvoigt.com/

30.   Alberta Sequeirahttp://www.albertasequeira.wordpress.com/


32.  Marcia Laycockhttp://www.writer-lee.blogspot.com/


34.  Nike Chillemi -  http://nikechillemi.wordpress.com/

35.  Elaine Marie Cooper - http://ReflectionsInHindsight.wordpress.com


37.   Jairus B. Kinghttp://ministerjking.blogspot.com

38.   Bill Burt - http://kotbooks.blogspot.com/


40.   Bob Saffrin - http://bobsaffrin.com/

41.   Theresa Franklin - http://theresa-lifesjourney.blogspot.com/

42.   Ray Lincoln - http://blog.raywlincoln.com/

43.   Lilly Maytree -  http://www.lillymaytree.blogspot.com/

44.   Valerie King - http://www.valeriekingbooks.com

45.   Yvonne Pat Wright - http://www.spicetoeternity.co.uk/

46.   Pauline Creeden -  http://fatfreefaith.blogspot.com/

47.   Katherine Harms -  http://livingontilt.wordpress.com



50.   Melissa Main  http://www.mainwriters.com/

51.    Kevin Main - http://mainchristianbooks.com/

52.    Sandy Humphrey - http://www.kidscandoit.com/blog/

53.    Felice Gerwitz - http://www.writingandpublishingblog.com/

54.   Hallee Bridgeman - http://www.bridgemanfamily.com/hallee